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				عضو  ذهبـي 
				
				
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رقم العضوية : 72629
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الإنتساب : Jun 2012
 
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المنتدى : 
المنتدى العام
 
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			بتاريخ : 25-02-2013 الساعة : 07:20 PM
			
			 
			
			 
		
		
 
 
In the Name of Allah Most Compassionate Most Merciful 
 
May Allah`s peace , mercy and blessing be upon you  
 
 
There was a boy who was always losing his  
 
temper. His father gave him a bag full of  
 
nails and said to him, “My son, I want you  
 
to hammer a nail into our garden fence  
 
every time you need to direct your anger  
 
against something and you lose your temper 
 
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So the son started to follow his father’s  
 
advice. On the first day he hammered in 37  
 
nails, but getting the nails into the fence  
 
was not easy, so he started trying to  
 
control himself when he got angry. As the  
 
days went by, he was hammering in less  
 
nails, and within weeks he was able to  
 
control himself and was able to refrain  
 
from getting angry and from hammering  
 
nails. He came to his father and told him  
 
what he had achieved. His father was happy  
 
with his efforts and said to him: “But now,  
 
my son, you have to take out a nail for  
 
every day that you do not get angry.” 
 
The son started to take out the nails for  
 
each day that he did not get angry, until  
 
there were no nails left in the fence.  
 
He came to his father and told him what he 
  
had achieved. His father took him to the  
 
fence and said, “My son, you have done  
 
well, but look at these holes in the fence.  
 
This fence will never be the same again.”  
 
Then he added: “When you say things in a  
 
state of anger, they leave marks like these  
 
holes on the hearts of others. You can stab  
 
a person and withdraw the knife but it  
 
doesn’t matter how many times you say ‘I’m  
 
sorry,’ because the wound will remain.  
 
 
 with all my wishes 
 
AL-Jazaereye    
 
 
 
 
 
  
		
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